“Helping couples reconnect”

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LoveRelations is a couples & marriage counselling, relationship coaching and affair recovery practice.

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LoveRelations provides extensive psychological insight in how we behave as people. We also help you understand the dynamics of your relationships and how you think and feel.

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LoveRelations is unique in that the practitioners, Ruth & Dr. David Perl work as a couple with you as a couple.  Ruth also works one to one with individuals.  David works one to one with individuals through docleaf, his leadership development practice. Click here for more on docleaf.

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David is a registered medical practitioner, qualified counsellor / psychotherapist and an executive leadership coach. Ruth is a qualified counselling psychotherapist and a qualified executive coach.

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LoveRelations is based from our dedicated, discreet and safe therapy centre just a few minutes from the M1 and M25 intersection. We are near to Watford, St.Albans & North London.  We have ample free parking.

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 We see clients in the evenings and daytime from Monday-Friday. We work face to face and also via Skype. For our fees click here.

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To book your exploratory appointment call us now on 01923 889533 or email info@loverelations.co.uk

Are you struggling with communication issues? Is intimacy an issue? Has trust been broken in your relationship? Are old patterns of behaviour recurring? Do you struggle with low self-esteem, stress, anxiety or depression? If so, then LoveRelations can help.

We are husband and wife practitioners. David is a qualified coach, counsellor, psychotherapist and medical practitioner. Ruth is a qualified coach and counselling psychotherapist. We have been married for 30 years and commit ourselves to our own on-going growth and development. We bring our wisdom and insights from both our own individual work and  the work on our relationship.

Working with LoveRelations can give you many benefits:

  • Learn what your emotional triggers are.

  • Develop more effectives ways to deal with your emotions.

  • Grow your emotional language and intelligence.

  • Learn about the dynamics of your relationship with yourself and others.

  • Understand what you are seeking at an unconscious level.

The therapy and coaching we offer provides you with a safe and confidential space in which you can express your feelings. To gain a deeper insight into the dynamics which may be impacting your relationship with your partner, family, friends, work colleagues and others around you.

We offer a tailored process which works at a your own pace. We treat all issues with the utmost confidentiality.

We maintain a wholly impartial, supportive and non-judgemental attitude at all times.

To find out more or to book a session please call our office anytime, 7 days a week on 01923 889533. Alternatively, to request a call back or ask a question please complete our contact form below.

Here are just a few of the many issues we can help you with:

Affair Recovery

Intimacy Issues

Compulsive Behaviours & OCD

Divorce, Separation & Mediation



Stress & Anxiety


Women’s Issues

Men’s Issues

Illness & Bereavement

Family  Issues

Pre-Marriage Coaching


I pretty much knew our marriage was over when we came to see you.  I wanted to get to place where I could separate by letting go of the anger and hate I felt for my husband. I knew an acrimonious divorce would just eat me up and end up costing a lot more.   By using your seperating with sense programme,  we understood why our marriage had failed.  Not only did we managed to part without hostility, I also learned new tools and had a better understanding of myself to take into a relationship.

Divorced couple

Separated after 13 years

You helped us understand why our relationship was failing.  We now are back to having a marriage where we show each other respect and enjoy being with each other. Your approach really has saved our relationship and for that we can't thank you enough.

Young working couple

Married 5 years

Discovering my husband's affair was one of the most painful issues i've dealt with. With time and your gentle guidance and expertise, we have been able to rebuild our marriage into something even stronger than it was before his affair. We know communicate with honesty and are no longer afraid to express how we are feeling. My gratitude runs deep.

Retired couple

Married 35 years

Ruth and David - how can we ever thank you enough for saving our marriage. When we first arrived at your office, we felt nothing would work as the love had gone. With your sensitive experienced guidance, we gradually healed the deep wounds in our relationship. It really helped us to understand how we brought our own issues into our marriage and working on these has been an extra benefit.

Lawyer and wife

Married 18 years

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