Entries by Ruth Perl

Let Me In

Let me in! What do you need from me to show you that I care? What can I do for you to say I will be there? How can I explain to you the love that fills my heart? How do I make you see, that I’ve felt it from the start? Why do you […]

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Romance and communication

With Valentines day now passed, I start to wonder if those husbands, wives and partners sigh in relief at another one gone? The media whip up the importance of romance and love all wrapped up in red roses, chocolates and candle light dinners. The reality however is far from this ideal picture. Maybe in the […]

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One Wish

I have often thought over the years that if I had just one wish what would that be? What would I change, do different or ask for? Many times I’ve daydreamed about one thing or another and thought my life would be better, more complete, happier, healthier, thinner and I could go on and on. […]

Should I go? Should I stay? – Separation

Separating with Sense We use this term because for many relationships where one or both partners wish to go their separate ways, all rational thinking and sense goes out of the window!! The reality is that understanding the dynamics involved between two people that then leads to a separation are complex and deep. Too often what […]