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We are David and Ruth Perl and we help couples re-build their relationships and learn how to create fulfilling partnerships. 

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Welcome to LoveRelations. 

We are Dr. David and Ruth Perl. We are both relationship experts, dealing with all partnership issues including conflict, affair recovery and limerence

We are both qualified Coaches, Psychotherapists and Counsellors. David is also a medical practitioner

LoveRelations is a support community for those seeking to rebuild trust , intimacy and connection in their relationships

We see clients both in person at our therapy centre and also on-line 

Is your relationship?

Stuck in a rut?


No communication



Growing apart


Lack of fulfilment 




Hit by infidelity?


Shock and hurt


Broken trust




Lacking intimacy?


Lack of sex

No Connection

No Communication

Mismatched desire

Lost magic


In a crisis? 



Work pressures

Money struggles

Parenting issues

Lack of time

Interfering in-laws

If so join one our programs now!




Join our growing community of people wishing to gain access to exclusive content

  • LoveRelations open Facebook group –  click here to access
  • 7 day self discovery course including videos and accompanying worksheets on a range of topics:
  • An extensive range of podcasts
  • Book reviews




Join a private community of people working hard to be the best versions of themselves

  • All the benefits from the online programmes plus:
  • 2 per month 90 minute zoom men’s group with David or
  • 2 per month 90 minute zoom women’s group with Ruth
  • Member’s only facebook group for men or
  • Member’s only facebook group for women




Join a private community of people wanting to deepen their understanding of relationships. 

  • All the benefits of the entry level membership plus:
  • 2 per month 90 mins  couple’s sessions with a maximum of 5 couples with Ruth & David
  • Access to private facebook group for couples
  • Online companion journal and bonus content




Join the exclusive community of  people seeking those excellence in all aspects of their lives.

  • All the benefits of the entry membership plus:
  • 10 x 60 mins private individual sessions over 3 months with Ruth or David  or
  • 6 x 60 mins private couple’s sessions over 3 months with Ruth & David
  • 30 mins per week online private support per person
  • Online companion journal and bonus content
  • Minimum 3 months subscription

Some of our client feedback

"Ruth and David - how can we ever thank you enough for saving our marriage. When we first arrived at your office, we felt nothing would work as the love had gone. With your sensitive experienced guidance, we gradually healed the deep wounds in our relationship. It really helped us to understand how we brought our own issues into our marriage and working on these has been an extra benefit."
Karen and Les
Retired Couple
"I will take this opportunity to thank you for all of the hard work you have put in with me. It has been, and continues to be, truly transformative and what could have been a profoundly traumatic experience for me has been and is being processed in what I feel is a really healthy way, leaving me in a position of positivity, understanding and empowerment."
Father of 3
"Discovering my husband's affair was one of the most painful issues i've dealt with. With time and your gentle guidance and expertise, we have been able to rebuild our marriage into something even stronger than it was before his affair. We know communicate with honesty and are no longer afraid to express how we are feeling. My gratitude runs deep."
Retired grandmother
I have worked with David (and to a lesser extent Ruth) for roughly 6 months and they have both been amazing and helped me to make some powerful changes to my life. David has shown me how to 'wake up', look within, become honest and authentic and meet my needs without the need to turn to unhealthy coping mechanisms that had caused harm and damage in the past. I have previously worked with counsellors and a hypnotherapist, but none of them did much more than scratch the surface. David is not afraid of getting to the root of the problems (even though this can feel challenging in the early stages of therapy) and has worked with me to help rip the roots out of the ground. These days I am way happier than ever and feel as though I am improving all the time with continued self-development. David has become a mentor, role model and a father figure (that I never had in my life) - on top of that, he is a brilliant therapist. Thank you both - you have changed my life for the better!
Sobriety coach
Dear David and Ruth, Gavin and I have recently finished 8 months of couples coaching/therapy with you both. We wanted to thank you for the help and guidance you gave us in helping to communicate and understand each other better. This year has been very difficult, we now have more hope that next year will be better for us and our family.
Sally& Gavin
Professional working Mum
Went to see David as was struggling with limerence. He really helped me understand and cope with this condition and helped me through a very dark period of my life. I always have found it hard to invest in myself and this really was one of the best investments i made.
Working father